If possible, I hope there will be no cold violence, because the harm of cold violence is really great! But the reality is so cruel. Today we will take a look at what Cancer’s cold violence means! From three aspects Let’s analyze the reasons why Cancer is cold and violent towards you, let’s take a look.
1. Doubt yourself
Cancer has a somewhat sensitive personality and is often unconfident, and sometimes something happens. After the incident, she will be unable to control herself and even doubt herself. At this time, she will give herself some time alone to slowly think about what happened and understand it. After she smoothes out her thoughts, she will think about how to talk to you, but there is a time limit. , she didn’t mean not to talk to you, so she won’t just ignore you all the time. She will naturally come to you when she figures it out.
And she is just subconsciously silent and does not take the initiative to communicate with you, but she will respond to what you say and ask, and her attitude towards you will not be bad. If she is in this situation, don't rush to seek a result. Be sure to give her some time to think clearly, and she will naturally give you an answer.
2. How to deal with you
Cancer’s personality is sometimes awkward. Although she treats you That's fine, but that's also because she wants to be good to you and is willing to pay for you. Essentially, it's to fulfill her inner thoughts and satisfy her desire to be good to you.
So sometimes when Cancer wants to do something but you don’t agree or you have differences of opinion and can’t communicate, she will feel that her ideas cannot be realized and her wishes cannot be fulfilled, but she can’t do it in order not to embarrass the situation. If she pushes you too hard, she will choose to treat it coldly and leave you and the matter alone until you compromise with her.
In fact, although she didn’t say a word to force you, in fact, by ignoring you like this, she is forcing you to bow down in disguise and force you to agree to her. The most irritating thing is that she is also like this when it comes to breaking up. She doesn't want to be the "bad person" who proposed breaking up, so she treats you with all kinds of cold violence without mentioning the breakup or admitting that she wants to break up. Then you suffer. If it doesn't work out, take the initiative to break up with her, and she will quickly agree to it.
3. Deliberately alienating you
As long as Cancer recognizes you in his heart, he will be able to do anything. I want to talk to you, and I may occasionally think about it in my heart for a long time, but I will always say it to you, and I won’t always keep everything in my heart. So if she suddenly becomes cold and violent towards you, and it lasts for a long time, then She may just want to alienate you and avoid you on purpose.
If Cancer hates someone, he will not tell you directly, but will keep a distance from you and wait for you to leave. This is not because he is a tactful person and does not want to offend you. SheI just feel that everyone is an adult. As long as she distances herself from you, you will naturally distance yourself from her. There is no need to put this matter on the table and tell you specifically.
The above is about the reasons why Cancer is coldly violent towards you. If you encounter cold violence and don’t know what to do, you can click on private chat and let me help you.
