The sage Confucius once pointed out that there is no distinction in education. In short, anyone can learn, as long as those who don’t want to learn cannot learn. The same goes for chasing girls. The most difficult girls to chase are girls who don’t want to fall in love. Because she doesn't want to be in love, no matter how you flirt with her, date her, or talk about love, it won't help.
What should a boy do when he meets a girl who doesn’t want to fall in love? Is the only way to give up?
Reasons for not wanting to fall in love
The first type: I just don’t want to fall in love with you. Such girls are very smart because their rejection methods are very clever. Rejection elaborated in this way will not hurt boys and will let boys know how to retreat when faced with difficulties.
The second type: Hesitating whether I should agree to you. A girl's sensibility makes her sensitive. Faced with a sudden confession, she usually feels very flustered inside. She feels happy because she happens to like you, but she feels hesitant because she is not sure whether you are sincere. Because of this ambivalence, she would say something like "I don't want to fall in love."
The third type: Afraid that falling in love will affect you. Some girls may think that falling in love will affect their studies, and some girls may be hurt by love... This type of girl does not want to fall in love due to various reasons. On the other hand, these girls are very sincere.
How to chase a girl who doesn’t want to fall in love
When a hunter is hunting, he will not attack rashly. Because hunters know how to create traps and wait for opportunities to increase the probability of success. The reason mentioned above for not wanting to fall in love is to help boys understand what kind of situation the girls they like belong to. Only by knowing the reasons can it be better for boys to "prescribe the right medicine" to pursue girls who don't want to fall in love.
Many girls who don’t want to fall in love are girls who have not experienced the joy of love, so they will tell boys that they don’t want to fall in love. At this time, boys should create "traps" - create more opportunities to get along, because understanding each other is the prerequisite for falling in love with each other. The more you get along with her, the easier it will be to know her interests and hobbies. Just accompany her to do the things she likes to do. Let her have your presence in her happy memories, and it will be much easier to pursue her.
Usually people do not become lovers directly just because they are friends. After getting along comfortably, we have to wait for the opportunity. When the emotional resonance becomes more and more (the ambiguous period between friends and lovers), then confessing can greatly increase the success rate.
