The sense of security and crisis are both psychological feelings of women. This feeling does not arise out of thin air, but is a reflection of real life in women's psychology.
In many relationships, girls say they don’t feel safe. From another perspective (from a boy’s perspective), girls are too pretentious. If this "security" issue is not properly dealt with, then love will feel uncomfortable, just like a newly grown scar, which makes you uncomfortable if you don't pick it, and bleeds when you pick it.
How to establish a sense of security
1. Maturity means having money now, and being motivated means having money in the future. , I feel safe because she is in charge of the money. ——"The Essence of Women"
Although it is a joke, it also reflects the importance of money in love. Although not every girl measures love or marriage by money, it cannot change the cruel fact that without money, there is nothing you can do!
2. Even if you have friction or small talk with a girl, Temper, but don't forget to care. As long as you remember to care about girls all the time, the sense of security will last forever. In the eyes of girls, your lover's concern is an intuitive way to show that you are cared about.
3. If you feel that you are unable to bring a sense of security to a girl financially, then make some promises to the girl appropriately and complete them well every time. For example: take you to see a movie on the weekend, wait for your birthday and let’s go to Hainan together...
The sense of security that girls want requires not only care, but also some proof of action, so that girls can feel your future. With her in the plan, her sense of security will be satisfied.
4. I believe that couples in love will have the experience of "reporting work" to each other: what they did today, what they ate, what they played, what they thought about...
Although they are all dispensable and boring trivial matters, this is what insecure girls want - control of the situation.
Why create a sense of crisis for girls
Always maintaining a sense of crisis is the greatest sense of security! If you want to If you want your girl to have a full sense of security, you need to mobilize her sense of crisis in order to become a qualified massage master.
Take it away, and show them what they had.
If we don't steal these things, they won't understand what they had.
With a sense of crisis, you will more clearly feel the happiness of security, so as a massage master, you need to create a sense of crisis for girls!
Example: Going on a date with a girlWhile shopping, a girl needs to go to the bathroom. You go to a milk tea shop and buy two cups of hot drinks such as hot cocoa or coffee, one to drink by yourself and one to carry. Give it to the girl when she comes back. She would naturally take the hot drink, say thank you and start drinking it. At this point, you can start to create a sense of crisis: Why did you drink? I asked you to mention it!
The scene must have been very embarrassing at that time, and the girl would be very panicked. Next, you can say: Very If it is hot, let it cool for a while before drinking~ Girls will naturally feel a sense of security from the sense of crisis!
