Many boys think of chasing girls very simply, thinking that girls will either agree to you or reject you. They have not thought about the possibility that girls will neither agree nor reject. In this case, the girl is either still thinking about whether to agree to you, or the girl just wants to hang on to you and use you as a backup. The following will analyze the situation for everyone. What does it mean when a girl neither agrees nor refuses? Can we still pursue it?
1. Girls use you as a spare tire
Sometimes, although a girl doesn’t really like you, she doesn’t have a suitable candidate around her, so she drags you along first. , neither agree nor refuse. In this case, if the boy gives up, she will take the initiative to give you hope because she doesn't want to lose you as a spare tire. Give you hope again and again, and then disappoint you again.
If you encounter this situation, you have confessed your love to her and done many things to her, and she has followed it. If the girl accepts all the orders but doesn't express anything, then she doesn't like it. Even if she agrees in the future, your love will still be unequal. Also, don’t treat a girl as a close friend in this situation. When she tells you one day that she has someone she likes, you will feel as uncomfortable as eating shit.
2. A girl is still considering whether to accept you or not
In fact, even if a girl likes you, she will not hastily agree to a boy's pursuit or refuse. There are several reasons. Two points:
1. The girl feels that you have not known each other for enough time. She does not understand you as a person, and you have not given her a reason to convince you. You say you like her, and you only know how much you like her. She didn't know how sincere it was.
2. Girls don’t dare to agree to boys rashly because they don’t believe it, but she doesn’t refuse because they are afraid of missing out.
In fact, girls are persistent when it comes to relationships and cannot afford to be hurt. She cannot be careless. After all, everyone wants to be consistent. In the end, she found the right person the first time. At the same time, the girl also hopes to get to know the boy better and confirm that the two like each other before finalizing the relationship.
And many boys like to say it is too easy when chasing girls. Girls think that you only like her on the surface, not the real her, so they don’t agree; and she still has a crush on you, So she won't refuse. It's just that you need to spend more time and energy if you want to catch her.
3. Girls are afraid of hurting you
In fact, girls neither agree nor reject because they are afraid of hurting you. This situation is also relatively common. Because although many girls don't necessarily like any boy, they don't dislike him either. Sometimes, it is very difficult for a girl to reject a suitor. She is afraid of hurting the boy's self-esteem. After all, he is the one who likes her, so the girl will show unclear rejection of the boy and reply to the boy's messages, butI also hope that the boys will quit on their own.
The main reasons why girls neither agree nor reject are the above three situations. I hope everyone can tell which situation a girl feels towards you. , you will know whether you want to continue pursuing it.
