Why is it that boys usually take the initiative in relationships between men and women? Don’t girls take the initiative? In fact, many times, it’s not that girls don’t take the initiative, but that girls take the initiative and boys don’t see it. Then there will be consequences for girls taking the initiative to show their kindness. What are the manifestations?
1. Give you something to talk about
In fact, no matter if it is a boy As a girl, if you really like someone, there will be times when you can't help but take the initiative to find him.
For example, I will take the initiative to chat with you, ask you to hang out, send you messages when I have something to do, etc.
If a girl likes you, she will really be more accommodating when chatting.
Even if you are not good at talking, she is willing to take the initiative to give you something to talk about and patiently find topics.
She can even chat with you about death topics such as "Good morning", "Good night" and "Have you eaten?"
Therefore, when chatting with a girl, no matter what you say, if she will find a way to extend the topic, you must know that she is already taking the initiative to show her kindness.
2. Pay attention to your emotions
She can always tell your emotions from just a few words or clues. I notice something is wrong at once, and then I try to solve it for you while the iron is hot.
She may even feel sad because you are sad, and she is particularly worried that she cannot really solve the problem for you, or that you are just being polite to her.
When she does this, it’s not because she has nothing to do or that her love is useless. She just wants to be close to you.
3. Various compliments
If a girl likes you, she will not be able to help but praise you. , after all, in the eyes of the person who likes you, all she sees are your advantages, so she can’t help but want to praise you and tell you that you are excellent in her heart, and she may not even realize it.
4. Create opportunities to establish contact with you
If a girl really likes a boy, she will find a way To establish contact with you and actively pursue it.
Don’t ask how to establish contact, ask how to create opportunities even if there are no opportunities.
For example, when I was still unfamiliar with someone, I often interacted with you in your circle of friends, hoping to gain your attention.
Or maybe when I see you going somewhere, I want to check in myself.
When I see the movies and songs you shared, I will watch them immediately and then share my feelings with you.
After getting acquainted with it, I started to invite you to join in on the pretext that my friend is having a party and I have no company.
I want to ask you for help whenever something happens, and I have to make some excuses when nothing happens. Anyway, I just want to be in your field of vision.
