When your boyfriend makes you angry, some girls will choose to have a cold war or break up directly. However, these methods cannot make your boyfriend truly realize his mistakes. Therefore, we need a more effective way to punish our boyfriend and make him remember his mistakes.
1. Don’t take the initiative to contact him
When our boyfriend makes a mistake, we can choose not to take the initiative to contact him. The purpose of this is to make him feel your disappointment and dissatisfaction. If he truly loves you, he will realize his mistake and take the initiative to apologize to you. If he doesn't realize his mistake, then the relationship isn't worth continuing.
2. Make him pay for his actions
If your boyfriend’s mistakes have brought you Actual losses, such as wasting your time or money, then you can make him pay for his actions. For example, ask him to go shopping with you, do housework, or treat you to dinner, etc. Doing this will help him understand how his behavior affects you and motivate him to correct his mistakes.
3. Express your emotions in words
Sometimes, your boyfriend’s mistakes are not obvious, such as ignoring your feelings or not replying to your messages in time. At this time, we can express our emotions in words. Tell him how you feel and let him know how his actions have affected you. Doing this will make him pay more attention to your feelings and prevent similar mistakes from happening again.
4. Give punishment
If the boyfriend’s mistake is very serious, such as cheating or cheating, etc., then we can consider giving punishment. However, this punishment needs to be determined on a case-by-case basis. For example, you can suspend the relationship, limit the time of meeting, or ask your boyfriend to write a letter of apology, etc. Doing this can make your boyfriend realize his mistakes and motivate him to correct them.
5. Give rewards
When our boyfriend realizes his mistakes and takes the initiative to correct them, we should also reward him. For example, praise him, give him a gift, or arrange a romantic date, etc. Doing this will make your boyfriend feel affirmed and supported by you, and motivate him to continue to behave well.
Punishing your boyfriend is not to retaliate or hurt him, but to make him realize his mistakes and motivate him to correct them. While punishing our boyfriends, we should also pay attention to our own emotions and needs, and stay rational and calm.
