Many boys will just give stupidly when they are in love, but they don’t know that your efforts are not moved by girls at all. They have slowly taken your efforts for granted. At this time, your relationship is actually unequal, because the relationship is mutual, and if you pay alone without getting an equal return, your relationship is unhealthy. Are you still making stupid sacrifices when chasing a girl during a relationship? Smart men have tips!
1. When the love is strong Ignore her appropriately
It is inevitable that after two people have been together for a long time, the sweet taste at the beginning will gradually disappear, so in this way, many lovers will also You will be in crisis of breaking up. But if you really want to make someone care about you, a smart man will start to neglect his beloved girl at the appropriate time when the relationship between the two of you is close.
Zhang Yu, the prince of love songs, once said that this is how he treats his girlfriend. When they first started dating, the two of them always wanted to be together every day, but later Zhang Yu used the excuse of being too busy at work. I'm busy and don't have time to spend with my girlfriend. Zhang Yu said, "Actually, it's not that I really don't have time to spend with her. I'm just worried that the two of us will always stick together and she will hate me in the end."
2. Don’t argue about right or wrong when quarreling, as long as the other person is happy
There is a saying that goes, “Home is not a place for reasoning, home is a place for love. ", I particularly agree with this sentence. In the relationship between the sexes, there are actually so many rights and wrongs. Everyone says, "If you want a girlfriend, then don't be right or wrong." So smart men are like this too. When they quarrel with their girlfriends, smart men will actually give way to each other without hurting each other's feelings, and in the end they can have a better relationship.
If you really want to be reasonable, then please do it carefully when both of you are rational.
3. Occasionally pretend to be "generous"
In fact, everyone is I have some friends of the opposite sex, but it would be unfair to everyone if I said that I would not associate with friends of the opposite sex after I have a partner. So when you are dating the girl you love, you should occasionally pretend to be "generous", even if it means giving the other person freedom. Occasionally pretending to be "generous" is actually not because you don't care, but because you care too much and are afraid that the other party will be unhappy.
4. Leave some time for work and yourself
Love is not an excuse for a man not to work. If you don’t work, how will you support the woman you love? Therefore, even when a smart man is in love, he will not spend all his time on himself. For those you like, you will leave some time for work, because only men who work seriously are reliable in the eyes of women.
Boys, when getting along with girls, it doesn’t mean that you can’t give, but that there must be a bottom line for giving and there must be rewards. If one day a girl takes your efforts for granted, then you may not be far from breaking up.
