Colleagues in the office don’t look up at each other, and they even spend more time together than with their partners, so office ambiguities are not uncommon. So in what ways does the ambiguity between married colleagues manifest? If two people are married, the woman will bring her food, biscuits, jams, home-cooked dishes, etc., as well as gifts. The man will also give the woman gifts, snacks, milk, etc. All alone. Is this considered ambiguous between married colleagues?
1. Ambiguity among married colleagues
In fact, it is okay for office colleagues to bring delicious food to each other, especially many girls often do this. If If you are of the opposite sex, you usually bring delicious food and share some with your colleagues in the office!
But if they often bring each other food alone, then the relationship must be unusual. Of course, as to whether it is considered "crossing the line", it depends on the specific situation!
There is a saying: "To be courteous for nothing...that's what" (you all know it!) The situation mentioned above is considered "courtesy", it depends on whether it is " Nothing happened”. This can also be regarded as a manifestation of the ambiguity between married colleagues, because their ambiguity is only towards a specific person, not all the colleagues around them.
2. Ambiguity among married colleagues
In fact, the above description is certainly ambiguous. If you You are the partner of one of them. You think they are ambiguous but there is no substantial evidence. You can't get angry even if you want to. It's true. The awkward thing is that you don't know which party took the initiative first.
For example, a woman likes cooking, and after cooking delicious food for her husband at home, she wants to let her male colleague try it. The food was carefully put into it, which proved that she had thoughts about this male colleague. It’s nothing more than hoping that he will think of her as a good-natured person and good at her craftsmanship, etc. This may further induce him to compare her with his wife: Look at her, she has a good job and good cooking skills, this is what my wife should be like. How wonderful.
In short, she not only wants to attract the attention of her male colleagues and make him think that she is unique and excellent, but also provides him with these small favors for a long time to tie him down. This benefit may not be available for a while. , he was still thinking about it. What a scheming person. Once a habit is formed, it is sometimes difficult to change or quit it.
Then, maybe this man is just being polite and doesn’t want to take advantage of others, but at the same time he also enjoys this special and unique treatment (only he can enjoy it among his colleagues), and he may be flattered and complacent. , in short it is very useful.
Another possibility is that the man took the initiative and he provoked her first. He always buys snacks for his female colleagues. In order to reciprocate, the female colleagues will cook delicious food at home and bring him a piece to return the favor.
But no matter what the possibility is, the interaction between married colleagues described at the beginning of the article seems ambiguous to outsiders, and it is a kind of tacit agreement between two people. Mutually beneficial behavior. Both people should enjoy it.
